Healing

The Wooden Spoon

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Once upon a time there was an innocent little girl.  She longed for her mother’s approval, but found herself being disciplined by her mother with a wooden spoon countless times.

The girl was naive and did not really know why she was being disciplined most of the time.  The scenario always ended with a period of trying to figure out what she did wrong to deserve the punishment she just received.

This little girl was me.

I can remember our seating arrangement at the dinner table, which was shaped like an octagon, and there were four of us.  We each had our assigned seat.  We had strict rules at the dinner table.   We had to be sitting properly.  We had to hold our fork properly.  And normally the television was on during dinner. 

For some reason I was the clumsy one.  (and the youngest of the family)  Either I spilled the milk while pouring more in my glass, or I dropped peas from my fork, and here came the wooden spoon.  My mother would go into the kitchen to the drawer, get out the wooden spoon and slap it on the table next to me, as a warning.  I got to continue my meal with the wooden spoon next to me, as a reminder not to make another false move. 

If I made another mistake, I would be hit with that spoon.  If I talked back, I was hit. 

My life was a system of rights and wrongs, never really learning or feeling like I could do what I was expected to do.  And many times not knowing how. 

A few times I was slapped by her at the dinner table as an instant reaction instead of the spoon.  I grew up hating my mom, and wooden spoons.

It seemed I got into trouble a lot, and looking back, the memory of what I did to deserve punishment is not clear.  But what is clear is the routine of what happened next.  My mother got angry.  She went to the kitchen drawer.  She came back with the wooden spoon.  I was beat.

She tried to beat me on my rear, but as the beating continued, I tried to cover myself, begging her to stop.  Screaming.  My hands desperately trying to cover my rear from the pain that I anticipated.  Many times screaming before she even started to hit me. 

Once she started, she did not stop.  She kept beating me.  If she could not get my rear, she hit my legs, not just once, not twice, but over and over and over and over.   I screamed.  I cried.  No one ever came to help me. 

I was sent to my room and told to shut up.  Be quiet.  If I cried, I was beat again. 

My only option was to scream into my pillow in order ‘not to be heard’.  Because if I didn’t, she would hear me, and come back into my room and beat me again with the spoon.

Sometimes she beat me hard and long enough that the spoon would break.  When I saw the spoon break; as a little girl I was devastated. (that she would hit me so hard that it would break)  When going to my room and looking at all the oval welts on my legs, I felt worthless and sorry for myself. 

I grew up hating the wooden spoon.  I thought to myself, I would never have a wooden spoon when I get my own kitchen.

Even as I got older, the discipline was the same.  If I did or said something wrong that make my mother angry – I could expect to be hit, or a beating with the wooden spoon – again.

Years later, after being saved by Jesus Christ as my savior, and about 5 years after that, in a season of my life God brought me to a place of deliverance.  I learned that I needed to forgive my mother for all she did to me.  And to allow Jesus to heal me of all the pain and the beatings.   I had abuse cast out of me.  And there was more than one.  I went through a process called inner-healing; where you forgive, heal the trauma associated with it, and have the unclean spirit behind it cast out.  I began to change dramatically through the process, and became stronger and stronger. 

It was a long process, and no matter where you are at, there is always more to do. 

I have been saved now for over 20 years and just yesterday went through another layer of the bitterness, and pain from the past.

I thought it was all healed, and forgiven!  But every circumstance requires another healing.  It’s a process.

Interestingly enough, just days before I came across these cute wooden spoons with happy faces and had to buy them.  Although they looked just like the ones my mother beat me with, the faces on them changed my feeling toward them.  I put them in my kitchen.  Now I realize it was God who led me to buy them, and telling me he will make all things new.  He will change my gloom to joy.  And he did. 

The process is not an easy one.  And there still may be more to heal.

But today, I have the victory through Christ Jesus for my healing and comfort, and deliverance. To God be the glory.

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How to Protect Yourself Cell Phone Radiation

Here at It’s Your Divine Destiny, our goal is to bring you awareness of what is about to take place, to bring you wisdom and information to help you discover and live out Your Divine Destiny.
Years ago, I began to experience ear pain when I used my cell phone and held it to my ear.  I began to use a wired headset, which helped it stay away from my ear.  Later when the Apple iPhones came out, I tried it for two weeks.  But even with the speaker on, and the phone away from my ear, I could feel it not only in my ear, but I could feel radiation hit various parts of my body.  I began to get dizzy spells and feel disoriented regularly while having the phone within 4 feet of my body. 
At the end of two weeks I opted for a regular flip phone again and kept using my wired headset.  This was only the beginning of symptoms, which got worse when I was around groups of people all with their cell phones on.  I now use my cell phone for emergencies only, and use a landline phone for my business, which has no radio frequency radiation. 
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Written by Janet Mata and Jonathan Otto

Bitterness

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Inspirational Writing by Janet Mata:

Bitterness, oh bitterness

Such a long life friend – so it seems

Such a deception, such a lie

A companion of companions, a true agreeor of everything that hates.

Bitterness agrees with everything that will tear down, leave you lifeless, and cold.

Oh Bitterness, if I had only knew what you were before I befriended you, that my life would be different.

You lied to me and made me think you were me, and I were you.  You caused me to speak sarcasticly, and be mean to people.   You lied to me constantly and engrossed my thoughts and my hearing, and twisted everything so I would curse myself and my life.

You have been a part of my life for more than I can remember, and now that you have been exposed I am no longer willing to be your friend.

I don’t like what I have become with you being my friend all these years.

I choose to be friends with all that is good and beneficial. And you do not fit in that choice, unfortunately for you.

The problem is many parts of my personality were friends with you.   And its time to tell them you are no longer going to be a part of our family.

That they will need to heal and change without you.

For bitterness is an ugly root, and I have my heavy duty shovel ready to dig and dig to get every last bit of you.  Get it?  Get all the bits from bitterness!

I do not choose to lean on you any longer.

I choose to forgive all those who have continuously hurt me.   I choose to live my life abundantly and take part in everything Yeshua died on the cross for.

I choose to live a righteous and holy life, one of perfection. And according to my Lord my God, he says that perfection is a continuation of seeking him and improving, never quitting or slowing down. To keep gaining ground. There is no failure in sin as long as I am continuously learning and loving and forgiving and seeking and finding.

So then.

It’s time to send you away so you may never return.

And I realize you have many companions that reside in me that are willing to open the door to you again and again.

I say to your companions that I choose to live without you also. You tried to make me think I needed to get away from my family members, but in reality I needed to get away from you. You were the one who did not want my family.

You tried to isolate me and exclude me from everything.

I am no longer willing to be your friend.

I expose you and your evil deeds.

I officially divorce you and decree that you are no longer my friend, and your companions and minions are no longer allowed to stay either.  They must go with you and never return.

I say to you this day that all hatred, unforgiveness, retaliation, bitterness, sarcasm, and everything under the sun that knows you on a personal level must vacate my premises.

I am under new management of the Holy Ghost and he is cleaning you out of my mind, soul and body.

Leave my premises and do not leave any roots, seeds or residue.

I renounce you today.   I forgive all those who have hurt me and cancel all their debt to me in the authority I have received in Jesus Christ my Lord and Saviour.   I cancel all Satan’s power and authority in this area because it is forgiven.

Holy Spirit enter in my heart, and heal my soul.

Speak to me your truth Holy Spirit, and remove every lie, and search me out for any and all bitterness and its companions.

I post a spiritual EVICTION notice on my heart on the door to bitterness.  May it be glued permanently as a reminder that the door to bitterness would be permanently locked and removed.

I send angels of God to ransack your house, to take back everything stolen from me and my generational line because of your ploys and tactics.

I leave you empty-handed and take back the joy of the Lord which is my strength.

I receive joy in every area that held bitterness in my life and choose to operate in joy as a part of me and my new friendship where bitterness used to reside.

Thank you Jesus for another opportunity to clean my spiritual house.   For you have been victorious, and now I am victorious also.

 

Scripture References:

Hebrews 12:15  GOD’S WORD® Translation
Make sure that everyone has kindness from God so that bitterness doesn’t take root and grow up to cause trouble that corrupts many of you.

Ephesians 4:31  New Living Translation
Get rid of all bitterness, rage, anger, harsh words, and slander, as well as all types of evil behavior.

 

 

Arise Sleeping Giant

Inspirational Writing by Janet Mata – It’s Your Divine Destiny is sponsored by BeautyforAshesBoutique.com

Have I not called a people – to proclaim the good news amongst the brethren?  Have  I not chosen those who have been afflicted, the poor, the lame,  the unlovelies to rise up and break loose and set free the bondages of Satan created by the religious?

For I have not called you to be stationery my friend.  Nor have I chosen you to go  around in circles repeating yourself  over and over.  But I have called you and chosen you.  I have anointed you to proclaim the gospel, to heal the sick, to restore the lame, and to set free the captives.  For haven’t I said I would use the captives of yesterday, and the unknowns, and nobodies to be your next generation of leaders?

Haven’t I said that I would wake the sleeping giant?  To bring restoration to the land of America  and its inhabitants?

Lo, the former way of man and his atrocities has come to an end.  No longer shall the oppressed continue to be oppressed.  No longer shall the lame be lame.   No longer shall the sick be sick.

For I have called an awakening my friend, to stir up, to awake, in this last hour to rise up and proclaim freedom to the captives in the land.

Have I not said I would use the unusual, those the world sees as with no value?  I choose to use  those man sees as less-than, the poor, and the afflicted.  Why?  So I receive all the glory; and to reveal to man there is still much to learn.

For the former things of man and their atrocities have been forgiven.  A mantle has been sent out of love and forgiveness to proclaim the year and favor of the Lord.  For who are you to judge, mighty man?  Who are you to lay heavy burdens of religion on those who are free?

This is why I am calling forth new leadership.

Isn’t my desire for every man, woman and child to know me?  To see me?  To find me?  For I delight in my people.  I love my people.  My desire is that all people come to me and find me.  To commune with me and I with them.  A non-religious meeting – filled with unconformity and peace.

Have I not said I am doing a thing in your day that you would not believe?  For I am a good God, executing judgment and fairness in lands I choose to restore.

It is my doing!

It is my delight!

It is my desire!

My word says be perfect as your heavenly  father is perfect.  But if your perception of perfect is for everything to be in order; how will you learn?  For perfection is the constant flowing energy that moves you forward.  The constant seeking and finding, the continuous learning and  gaining more and more wisdom and understanding.  For I delight in my people.

So who are you mighty man, to say I do not delight?   Who are you, O religious one, to make and extra set of rules and regulations to make knowing me even more difficult?

For doesn’t my word say I have come to set the captives free?  Isn’t freedom the main reason I came to the earth?  I was bound and whipped and beaten to set you free from these things, even if they are spiritual.

Now then, draw a line in the sand and step over to the next season.  Sit back and enjoy the ride for the Holy Spirit is moving as fast as a bullet train.  Get on board now before you get swept off your feet.

The train is moving!

The train is moving!

Come on board, one and all, for you have been chosen for such a time as this to bring healing to the land and its inhabitants.

For I am replacing the trail of tears with a wave of love and understanding.  I am restoring to you your rich heritage that has been stolen from you.

You are destined to frolic like well-fed calves, to eat the best of the land, to be the icons in America.  You have been chosen for such a time as this.

Take off your shoes – and test the waters.  Stand up and walk on water and see if I haven’t changed the circumstances and the favor:  For who else can change and entire people group?

Who else can restore the nations and its inhabitants?  It is I , the Lord who have spoken these things into existence.

Therefore, repent, make amends, and restore what you have stolen, and you yourselves will be restored.  Forgive, and release those who have oppressed you and you shall be set free.  For love and understanding go a long way, and this is the way I will lead my people Israel;  It begins with you.

Have a heart – and get understanding.  Seek the things that are important to me.  Love the things that I love.  Hate the things that I hate.  Do the  will of the Lord your God and truly you will be blessed beyond measure.  It is coming.  It is here.

Stand up and be counted as one who will rise up as an army of the Lord.  An army of Love, and an army of compassion.  Go. The time is now.

 

Isaiah 42:9

See, the former things have taken place, and new things I declare; before they spring into being I announce them to you.”

Isaiah 43:19

Behold, I will do a new thing; now it shall spring forth; shall ye not know it? I will even make a way in the wilderness, and rivers in the desert.

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